Never make a decision while angry…or while happy

What I have learnt this week, something I should have learnt a long time ago, as I can be quite impulsive.

I nearly divorced my husband!! This is the angry part.

And the happy part – I had a very social week and in my happiness and quest to keep up the social life, I have gone along and invited practically everyone to drinks and nibbles from next week.

And now, dates are clashing, I have too many things to do, and to make matters worse I am coming down with something.

I have yet to buy christmas presents for the children, for the nephews and nieces. And the nieces wear only designer!
Every year, I swear that I will start all these earlier, and every year, I end up shopping online, last minute and maybe also paying double.

I am so glad I never mentioned the divorce thing to hubby, as now we are fine again, and I hope he never says what he said.

For a long time, I have been insecure and unhappy. Now, nearing my 40s, I feel better in myself, more secure, more confident and then he goes and shatters all of that by a few bitter words.

Well, from now on, I will make decisions when I am neutral, not when I am too happy, and definitely not too angry.

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